Living in the Mountains
In my conversations with friends, I often find myself
saying "When we lived in the mountains" and realizing just how much
that experience changed me. In 1998, we decided we had enough of the
bright lights of the big city and moved to the mountains in Northern
Bohemia,
about hour and a half away from Prague. I've spent a decade there and
that's a significant portion of my life ... significant enough to mention
it here.
The Dul - Part 1
The decision to move out of Prague was quick and
simple - we just wanted
to escape the city. My sister suggested her favorite area, we drove
through the mountains,
posted a note that we were looking for a place to rent and, almost
miraculously,
found
one.
A
brand new
house in the village of Josefuv Dul, which is at the end of the road.
Beyond us, there was only the water reservoir and deep woods. Each
Spring brought a burst of wildflowers in the meadows,
each fall splendid colors and winters were fairytale white. But if
there is someone who really appreciates the outdoors, it was our Labrador
Barkley and our two cats. And, yes, there was gardening too.
But access to nature was not the only thing that turned
out great. We've gained meaningful time with our friends, they actually
joked that their quality of life went up just because now they had
a place to go on the weekends. Instead of seeing them at parties
where everyone talks a small talk, we got to to really spend time together
- share meals, take long walks, relax in
front
of the fire. We have around fifty such visits a year - regular weekends,
long holiday weekend, sometimes a week or two. Ken Nash holds the record
- he lived with us for three months and I was sorry when he moved to
Prague.
Batman's Cave
After five years, we moved to a very fancy house on
the other side of Liberec our friend's nicknamed the Batman's Cave.
It was built by a Dutch-based Czech architect for himself and
he
wasn't
quite ready
to leave
Holland.
The house sat isolated on a hill, overlooking a huge property and
mountain vistas. Unique in its design, it sported nine-meter high ceilings,
glassed walls, extensive roof covered by slate and grass great equipment.
I watched incredible sunsets from my office and often a herd of elk
walking around the
house. We only stayed there a little over a year, but we got married
in this
house - what better place, it had its own cathedral look.
The Dul - Part 2
We returned to Josefuv Dul for another four years in
a different house. This one was in such horrible state that we had
to do a lot of scrubbing, painting and repairs before it was ready
to move in. But once we settled in, we realized that its normal "human
scale" really worked for us. It was cosy, simpler and had an open fireplace
... the real thing! We added a splash of colors on the walls to keep
us happy through cold winters and I think that if I were to build my
own house, it would be very much like this one.
The Experience
The experience of living in the mountains was not just about nature
and homes. It was about the people, the overall slower lifestyle, the
difficulties of getting simple things done when you are a long way
away from the closest service or store. Shoveling snow is a serious
part of it, something that may be exciting for the occassional guest,
but gets pretty tiresome if you live there. But if you are a lonely
old lady, it's likely that your neighbors will do it for you. They
will also bring you groceries and take your dog to the vet ... that
is, if the vet didn't just stop by to check.
It was interesting to live in a small community. Just seeing how
important the small achievements were to people - any events, school
trips, sport
matches were subject for the local paper ... all these things are
meaningful to people and they are celebrated. If you live
in the city,
your neighbors don't get to know that your kid won a math contest.
Actually, they probably don't know your kid's name. In a village, that
kid gets congratulations. There is time to stop by your neighbors house
and
talk over the fence.
There
is time
to build a huge pyramid of logs for the community bonfire during "Witches
night". And there is no problem getting firemen to oversee its safety
- they are the ones who cut the trees for it.
There is authenticity
to all this and the experience feels very real. Sometimes too real,
when you realize most people there are unemploeyed, that the ski
lifts barely make enough to pay off loans or look at the rates of alcoholism.
But I generally found the mountain people to be friendly - tough
and
friendly. The weather is the king. Being stuck someplace in a car
can be dangerous and they just wouldn't pass you without asking whether
you need help. We quickly learned to do that too.
Living there changes you. I can't say I missed the city. We came to
Prague about 4 times a month, usually for some cultural event. Then
we went back at night,
putting
on
tire chains
at 2
a.m. just
to get home, all dressed up from the theatre... it just changes you.
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